Don’t take loans to marry, Sister Derby advises

Marriage is arguably the endpoint for all successful relationships. But these days what is considered is successful is really murky. People are being pressured into things that they would not normally do, like a woman marrying a guy she would never marry because her biological clock is close to stopping.

Ghanaian musician, Deborah Vanessa, known in showbiz as Sister Derby, has proffered an advice to ladies who are in relationships. Speaking on Citi TV’s ‘Sister Sister,’ she advised that women should not take loans for marriage.

“When you are in a relationship, know the guy you are dating and never take a loan to marry,” she said. She made this statement on the show that addresses problems faced by women in the sex and love lives. Sister Deborah, is the girlfriend of Ghanaian rapper Medikal. Despite being ridiculed by many for dating a guy who is younger than her, Derby has stated that she is happy being with Medikal and would surely marry him.

Age is just a number to be honest. Both Prince William and his brother Prince Harry are married to women older than them, former president Kuffour is younger than his wife, the list is endless. We should not disqualify people simply because of age gaps.